Reflections on Relations Between Muslims and Others
Recently,
a friend of mine asked me if I could write an article about people of other
faiths who might have had a deep impact on my life. He thought—and rightly
so—that if we become more aware of how indebted we are, in different ways, to
people from other religious communities, it can go a long way in promoting
interfaith harmony, which is such a pressing need across the globe today. In
asking me to write on the topic that he suggested, my friend probably wanted me
to help, in my own small way, promote better relations between Muslims and
people of other faiths—which is, of course, a very laudable objective.
For
a long time now I have been interested in the issue of relations between Muslims
and others. I have written several articles about this issue. And so, when my
friend came up with the idea of me doing an article on this subject, I was
delighted and gladly agreed to his request. However, when I got down to
planning the structure of my article, I suddenly felt that I would not be able
to write it. The reason was because I discovered, to own surprise, that there
were hardly one or two non-Muslims among my friends and reasonably close
acquaintances. In fact, to be more correct, besides this friend of mine who had
requested me to write the article, there were no non-Muslims whom I could
really call friends in the true sense of the term.
I
was quite taken aback at this lamentable discovery.
The
fact is that in the environment in which I was born and brought up, Muslims and
others regular interacted with each other. It was an everyday thing. Yet, growing
up, I did not develop a close friendship with any person from another faith
community other than the one I was born into.
This
is really tragic. If people of different faith communities live together in the
same locality, in the same village, in the same city, or in the same country,
there are definitely ample opportunities for them to become friends. And they
must become friends if they are to live together in amity. Befriending people
from other communities is also a wonderful way to learn good things from other
people, from other communities and from other traditions. This is crucial for
personal, social, and global progress, I am now convinced.
In
my case, one major reason for my not having established close friendships with
anyone from another faith community was that I spent many years studying in
traditional Muslim madrasas, starting from the primary level. In the past, in
some parts of India, children of other faith communities would also study in
such madrasas, along with Muslim children. Some non-Muslims also generously
financially contributed to madrasas. But today, the tradition of children from
other faith communities studying in madrasas is, by and large, no longer there.
Studying
in an all-Muslim environment, where all the students in the madrasas I attended
were Muslims, I did not get the chance to befriend anyone else. After finishing
with madrasa education, I enrolled at the Aligarh Muslim University, and here
again, my friends were all Muslims. Later, I taught for two years at the
Maulana Azad National Urdu University, in Hyderabad. Here, because it was an
Urdu university, there were very few students and teachers from other faith communities.
Now, however, I teach at the Jamia Millia Islamia, in New Delhi, where I do
have more chances to interact with people from other faith communities—which is
a very good thing.
This,
in brief, is how things have been with me. By and large, it is the same with
most other people who have studied in traditional madrasas. There are very few
examples of ulama and other madrasa
graduates who have close friends among people of other faiths. This is in
contrast to many of those Muslims who have studied in government or good
quality private schools that have students from different religious backgrounds.
This provides such Muslims the opportunity to establish friendships with people
from other faith backgrounds, to visit each other’s homes, to join in each
other’s joyful and sorrowful occasions, and so on.
In
a plural society like India, it is really indispensable for people from
different faith backgrounds to enjoy friendly relations with each other. In
this regard, it is lamentable that in some parts of India, especially in
certain cities, close social interactions between Muslims and others have been
steadily declining over the years. There are two major reasons for this growing
gap. The first is a certain sort of majoritarian politics, which leads to
increasing ghettoisation of, and insularity among, Muslims. The second—and this
is the basic focus of this article—is a factor that is internal to Muslims
themselves and is a result of misinterpretations of certain Islamic teachings.
Muslims
ought to make every effort to bridge the growing divide between them and people
of other faiths. This is both a religious as well as a social responsibility on
their part. When members of different communities have close, friendly
relations, they can share the good things their faiths and traditions with each
other. This can be a very beneficial learning experience for everyone
concerned. From the spiritual point of view, this can help all involved to grow
spiritually. From the social point of view, the importance of such friendly
relations is obvious, especially for Muslims, who are a minority in India and who
are largely economically poor and illiterate. Their own well-being is crucially
linked to having good relations with the majority.
Yet,
despite this, from the Muslim side itself there are major obstacles to building
good relations between Muslims and others. The biggest obstacle in this regard
are certain ‘religious’ views that are a result of wrong interpretations of
Islamic teachings. It is a
lamentable fact that some Muslim ‘religious scholars’ have very negative views
of many people of other faiths, wrongly thinking them to be najis (‘impure) and paleed (‘dirty’). They wrongly claim sanction for this stance from
the scriptures. The fact, however, is that the impurity of the mushrikeen (polytheists or those who
associate others with God) that the Quran talks about is with reference to
certain beliefs of theirs, and not to their very person or being as such. That
is why, for instance, Abu Hanifa (founder of the Hanafi school of Sunni Muslim
jurisprudence, with which the vast majority of the Muslims of South Asia are
formally affiliated) was of the opinion that they could even enter the Kaaba if
their bodies were free from external impurities. In the same way, when the
Quran refers to the enmity of the mushrikeen,
it relates to the mushrikeen of
Arabia at the time of the Prophet Muhammad and not to all the mushrikeen of the whole world. Moreover,
it relates specifically only to those mushrikeen
of seventh century Arabia of the Prophet’s times who were fighting against
the Muslims, and not to those mushrikeen
who had cordial relations with the Muslims. Had it referred to all mushrikeen, how could it be that in
promoting and spreading the message of Islam in Mecca itself many non-Muslims
played a very important role? For instance, the Prophet’s own paternal uncle,
Abu Talib (according to the Sunni view, he had not accepted Islam), by virtue
of whose protection and unprecedented support in the early phase of Islam the Prophet
was able to fearlessly devote himself to preach Islam to people in Mecca. Or, Mut’imbin
Adi, who, when the disbelievers of Mecca boycotted the Hashmi clan (to which the Prophet belonged), played a major role
in ending the boycott and gave the Prophet shelter, because of which the
Prophet entered Mecca and engaged in inviting people to God. Or, Abdullah bin Uraiqit, who guided the Prophet
on his migration (hijrat) to Medina because the Prophet and his
companion Abu Bakr (who was accompanying him on this journey) were not familiar
with the routes from Mecca to Medina. It definitely cannot be at all reasonable
to put the Prophet’s uncles Abu Talib and Abu Lahab in the same category just
because Abu Lahab was not a Muslim and, according to the Sunnis, nor was Abu
Talib. In contrast to Abu Talib, Abu Lahab vociferously opposed the Prophet and
left no stone unturned in stopping him from calling the people to God’s path.
In
the same way, some Prophetic hadiths,
according to which after the commandment was revealed to the Prophet to migrate
to Medina, Muslims were stopped from living amidst mushrikeen, have been wrongly interpreted by some self-styled
‘Islamic scholars’ to wrongly argue that Muslims should not live along with people
of other faiths in
the same areas. Such inane and ignorant claims of some self-styled ulama are themselves a source of great
strife or fitna, which needs to be
countered. Another such erroneous view relates to friendship or muwalat with non-Muslims. Interpreting certain
Quranic verses in a very wrong way, several so-called ulama wrongly argue that Muslims must not have friendly love in
their hearts for people of other faiths. This is
a really very wrong claim and has no sanction in the Quran, if the Quran is
understood properly. How, one must ask here, can people with such utterly
erroneous views have good relations with others?
There
is an urgent need for Muslims all over the world, including India, to reach out
to people of other faiths and persuasions and try to build close friendships
with them. This is for their mutual benefit, and for the collective benefit of
the whole world. In this regard, there are many practical things that Muslims
could do, including:
·
Teaching, in an empathetic
and objective manner, madrasa students about other religions and
the traditions, cultures and histories of other communities.
·
Including as many
people of other faiths as possible as beneficiaries in the social services provided
by Muslim organizations (Unfortunately, reflecting a rather widespread mindset
prevalent among Muslims, most Muslim organizations cater to Muslims alone. In
this regard, they should learn from the noble example of many Christian
organizations).
·
Promoting interfaith
initiatives. Muslim organizations, including madrasas, should promote
interfaith dialogue in the same way as, for instance, some Christian
organizations are doing.
·
Rethink many issues related
to other communities (including about their status and relations between
Muslims and them) contained in the corpus of traditional fiqh or Muslim jurisprudence that are a big obstacle to
establishing friendly relations between Muslims and others. There is a need to
develop new understandings of fiqh
that reflect the contemporary context and the imperative for harmonious and
mutually-beneficial friendly relations between Muslims and others.
·
Improving relations
between Muslims and others is a very urgent necessity in India (and elsewhere)
today, much more important than launching political drives and insisting on
political demands. Good relations with others are indispensable for the
well-being of all people, including Muslims themselves.